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As a women’s wellness practitioner at our Draper medical spa, I’ve had so many  conversations with women who whisper the same concern: “I just don’t want sex anymore.” These words are usually accompanied by confusion, guilt, and sometimes tears.

What these women don’t realize is how common this experience truly is. Studies suggest that up to 40% of women experience decreased sexual desire at some point in their lives. And to be honest, I think those numbers are vastly underreported. Additionally, here in Utah, some unique cultural factors often prevent women from seeking the help they deserve.

I’ve dedicated my practice in Draper to creating a safe space where women can discuss their intimate concerns without judgment. The good news I share with each patient is that decreased sexual desire isn’t something you simply have to accept! Here at our Draper location, we offer several effective treatment options that have helped hundreds of local women reconnect with their sexuality and improve their quality of life.

From hormone therapy to innovative treatments like Clitoxin and Scream Cream, there are solutions available right here in our Draper medical spa. Let’s take a deeper look at diminished sexual desire in women and why it happens. (Hint: it’s not your fault).

Understanding Female Sexual Desire

Before discussing treatments, I believe it’s important for women to understand the complex nature of sexual desire. Men’s sexuality is usually pretty straightforward. But women’s desire involves a delicate interplay between physical, hormonal, psychological, and relationship factors.

For my patients here in the Wasatch Front area, I explain that female sexual desire operates on two systems: spontaneous desire (sexual thoughts and urges that occur unprompted) and responsive desire (desire that emerges in response to pleasurable stimulation). Many women naturally experience more responsive desire. This isn’t a dysfunction but simply a different pattern.

In my Draper practice, I commonly see decreased desire stemming from several factors:

 

What concerns me most is that many women in our Salt Lake community suffer silently, believing their decreased desire is “just part of life” or something they should ignore. I want to emphasize that sexual wellness is an important aspect of overall health, and seeking treatment is both normal and important.

When a patient comes to our Draper medical spa reporting loss of sexual desire, I look for signs that indicate a medical approach might help: significant decrease in sexual thoughts or fantasies, reduced response to sexual cues, relationship distress related to desire discrepancy, and desire issues that persist for six months or longer.

 

Hormone Replacement Therapy: Restoring Balance from Within

In my experience as a Draper women’s wellness provider, hormone imbalance is one of the most common physical factors affecting sexual desire. This is particularly true for women approaching or experiencing menopause, but can affect women of various ages.

Estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone all play crucial roles in female sexual function. Yes, testosterone—though commonly thought of as a male hormone, women’s bodies produce small amounts that significantly impact desire and arousal. When these hormones decline or become imbalanced, sexual desire often follows suit.

At La Belle Vie Medical Care & Aesthetics, I take a comprehensive approach to hormone replacement therapy that differs from what you might find elsewhere in Utah. Rather than simply prescribing standardized treatments, we begin with thorough testing to identify your specific hormone levels. I then develop a customized HRT plan that might include:

 

One patient of mine, a 48-year-old mother of four, came to me after years of nonexistent desire and growing distance in her marriage. After three months on a personalized hormone therapy program, she reported feeling “like myself again” with naturally occurring sexual thoughts she hadn’t experienced in years.

What sets our Draper approach apart is our commitment to monitoring and adjusting. Hormone therapy isn’t a one-size-fits-all solution, and we track your progress with regular follow-ups and testing to ensure optimal results while minimizing side effects. For women in the Salt Lake Valley area, this means convenient, continuous care without traveling to multiple specialists.

Most patients notice improvements in sexual desire within 2-3 weeks, with full benefits typically appearing after 3 months of treatment. I think that’s pretty fantastic!

Clitoxin: Targeted Treatment for Enhanced Sensation

Another one of the most innovative treatments we offer at our Draper medical spa is Clitoxin. Most of my Utah patients haven’t heard of this new treatment before their consultation. Similar to cosmetic applications of neurotoxins in other areas, Clitoxin involves carefully placed injections designed to increase blood flow and sensation to the clitoris and surrounding tissues. Think of it as botox for your G-spot.

The results my Draper patients experience are often remarkable. The treatment works by relaxing certain muscles while increasing blood flow to the genital region, which enhances sensitivity and makes arousal both easier to achieve and more intense when it occurs.

In administering this treatment to women throughout Utah County, I’ve observed that approximately 87% report significant improvements in both arousal and orgasm intensity. A patient recently told me, “I was skeptical at first, but the difference is night and day. My husband has noticed I’m the one initiating sex  now.”

Beyond sexual function, many of my Draper patients appreciate that Clitoxin can help with mild stress urinary incontinence, a common concern after childbirth. This dual benefit makes it particularly valuable for many women in our Utah community who are recovering from multiple pregnancies.

The procedure itself takes only about 15 minutes in our comfortable and serene office. We apply a topical numbing cream first, making the treatment virtually painless. Unlike some medical spas in the broader Salt Lake region that offer this as a standalone service, we incorporate Clitoxin into a comprehensive sexual wellness plan that might include other treatments or therapies for optimal results.

 

Scream Cream: On-Demand Enhancement

For women seeking a non-invasive, as-needed option, our compounded topical treatment—colloquially known as “Scream Cream”—has become increasingly popular among our Draper medical spa clients. This prescription cream combines several active ingredients designed to increase blood flow, enhance sensitivity, and intensify sensation when applied to the clitoral area shortly before sexual activity.

What many of my Utah patients appreciate about this option is its discretion and control—they can choose when to use it based on their own needs and schedule. The formulation we provide at our Draper location is carefully customized based on your specific needs and sensitivity level.

The cream typically includes some combination of:

 

A 37-year-old patient of mine described her experience: “I was concerned about the loss of physical sensation after my second child. The cream brought back feelings I hadn’t experienced in years, and it has made intimacy enjoyable instead of obligatory.”

For optimal results, I typically recommend applying a pea-sized amount to the clitoral area about 30 minutes before sexual activity. Most women report effects lasting 1-2 hours. What sets our approach apart from other providers in Utah County is that we don’t just prescribe the cream and send you on your way—we provide detailed education on proper use and integration into your intimate life.

For some of my Draper patients, I recommend combining Scream Cream with other treatments for comprehensive results. For instance, using the cream while also addressing hormonal imbalances can provide both immediate enhancement and long-term improvement in baseline desire.

Holistic Approaches to Sexual Wellness in Draper

While medical treatments are effective, my approach at our Draper medical spa incorporates the whole person. Sexual wellness doesn’t exist in isolation from overall health, which is why we offer complimentary services that support sexual function indirectly but significantly.

For my Utah patients dealing with desire issues, I often recommend:

 

One aspect of sexual wellness often overlooked in more conservative communities like ours in Utah County is the importance of open communication. During consultations at our Draper facility, I create space for women to explore not just physical but emotional and relationship factors affecting desire. When appropriate, I can provide referrals to local sex therapists and relationship counselors who share our body-positive, shame-free approach.

We want to ensure comprehensive care that addresses all aspects of your sexual wellness.

 

Taking the First Step Toward Better Sex

If you’re a woman in the Salt Lake area experiencing decreased sexual desire, please know that you’re not alone, and you don’t have to just accept this as your new normal. At our Draper medical spa, we’ve helped hundreds of local women reclaim their sexual wellness and, by extension, improve their relationships and quality of life.

Your first appointment at our discreet Draper location includes a comprehensive consultation where we discuss your concerns, medical history, and goals in a judgment-free environment. Many women tell me they leave this first appointment feeling relieved just to have spoken openly about concerns they’ve kept private for years.

Whether the right approach for you involves hormone optimization, Clitoxin, Scream Cream, or a combination of treatments, we’ll develop a personalized plan that addresses your specific needs. Our Draper medical spa prides itself on being the premier destination for women’s intimate wellness in the Salt Lake Valley area.

Sexual desire is not a luxury—it’s an important component of overall wellness that every woman deserves to experience. I invite you to contact La Belle Vie today to begin your journey back to a fulfilling and satisfying intimate life.

Note: Clitoxin® is a registered trademark. The procedure should only be performed by medical providers properly trained and certified by the Cellular Medicine Association (CMA). As the owner of La Belle Vie Medical Spa, I am a certified provider of this revolutionary treatment.

Kelly Lance